l bumps, redness?

This might sound stupid, but is the supposed to be rather pink, skin color, or does it matter? I don't know if mine is more red than it should be, and I'm not sure if it has to do with eczema.. I also have bumps, which may be due to shaving, but I haven't done it in a long time because of razor burn and I'm too afraid to wax. I've asked my mom (I'm not ually active, nor fully mature) and she said it's probably just from shaving. But I'm nervous and wary of going to a gynecologist because of the bumps and "redness" (not to mention hair because I have held off on it..) it looks very.. unattractive and embarring. I'm scared about it. The bumps are located not inside the labia (? I don't know if that makes sense) but on the edge, if that makes sense. I know I probably have to get an appointment.. because I've had to deal with smell as well, not seriously bad but just annoying. I'm also doing the wrong thing by using regular body wash. Help me, please.